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Open Question: Fun, unique, creative ways to get married?

I want to receive married with just me and my man, no family, no friends, just for us. Our marriage is for US and no one else, after every! I'm not finding anything via google search so do you have any ideas? Someone suggested going to a bar/public place and getting married right there, surprising everyone :) My man suggested surprising me in the early morning by waking me and having the official right there to marry us in bed, because that is how he loves me, dragon breath and messy hair and every :) but now it's not a surprise!!!! I still like it though. Also, we are adventurous and like the idea of caving or skydiving, but everyone does skydiving these days. Please help!!!!!! Thanks to those that actually answered the question! This is why I rarely use Yahoo Answers... ha! Yes, I know we need a witness, I even mentioned the official in my post! I meant just the two of us as no family and friends. Of course we need someone to sign the papers. Yes, we have already done the paperwork and gotten our marriage license. We have 60 days to receive married by someone qualified and then it is legal. Most people receive the license weeks before they actually receive married. The actual MARRIAGE can still be a surprise. :) CindyLu- Really? Must you go around being a pain in the ...? You don't know me. Our parents know we are doing this and SUPPORT us. Not everyone is like you. receive over it! Oh, and it doesn't have to be something that NO ONE has done before. That is not what I meant or said. Just something fun and special, but it's okay if someone has done it before. Just wanted some REAL ideas.

7 Feb 2012, 9:48 am | click here for answers

Open Question: I'm confused weather to go in a relationship or not?

I've known this girl since back in my home country I've been here almost 7years and about 5years ago we been really close friends to the point people thought that we were going out, both her parents and ma parents like seeing us together. She wanted me as her boyfriends for too long but she does not wanna be the one to tell me first. She's gone out with someone but broken up with him coz she does not like him really. At that time I was going out with other girls. I mean -I do have that strong connection as well, the adore kinda feeling but not really adore but there is this strog connection between and her and I. I'm more of a bad guy and she is a good girl, she is a home girl, Christian girl, and I'm more of clubbing, and I like bad girls-the ones that look hot, the ones that wears min skirt can dance and the ones that you walk with and people stare. She's got the type of body I like but her face is not pretty. This girl wants me so bad but I don't want to say yes ad later on in the relationship we breach up and loose our friendship and every that. She is the type of girl if it works out she would marry me. every she talks abt is me. But she's the type of girl who would snooze with a guy at the marriage stage and I wouldnt wait for that long I mean she is a good girl but I like wild girls. When im walking at the beach I just can't help looking at the fine ladies. I'm a Christian as well but not a food Christian -the girl thinks I'm good and she knows a little abt my bad sides. My friends gt hot girls too I need help I'm confused, and I don't know what to say to her or what to do. Today she asked me a very difficult question-weather I should be her lover i told her I'll receive back to you on that one. Hopefully I've explained enough pls help me I'm totally confuse Dno wht to do

7 Feb 2012, 9:40 am | click here for answers

Open Question: Why does my Russian capricorn boyfriend bring up marriage like it will happen when he acts mean to me at times?

My boyfriend is stressed for the following reasons: School Work Not making enough money Taking care of a sick parent alone And he acts like I am foe number one. every I want to do is spend time with him. And he is taking his stress out on me, being icy and distant every he can say is "I am sorry." every I want to do is help him and make things better for him. He yelled at me last night and asked me to leave him alone. So I have done that, I will not contact him since he is that stressed and pissy even though I have done nothing wrong. Sure maybe I have bothered him to talk about it but I thought I was helping. I told him I want to spend more time with him. He says he cannot do this that school and work need to arrive first and that I can either decide to support work with him by being patient and getting my possess life or I can leave which is something he does not want. He keeps telling me to go and make friends or go and focus on school and that when he has more time he will give it to me until then he needs to focus on school and his dad and work. I told him we should break up and he said "No. Just be patient. This will not be forever. This is temporary be patient and understanding." I told him "I don't want to look you everyday though." he said "So when we receive married you don't want to look me everyday? Because we will be seeing each other everyday." Why is he bringing up marriage when he is acting like this with me? Acting stressed and moody? Lol do you think it's wise for me to just leave him be?

7 Feb 2012, 7:41 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Why does my capricorn Russian boyfriend keep bringing marriage like it's going to happen he is moody with me ?

7 Feb 2012, 7:40 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: I NEED SOME HELP WITH MY MACBETH ESSAY?

You will write a literally essay of approximately 500 words on one of the topics listed below. your essay will only refer to acts I-III of the play. remember to write your essay according to the structure discussed in class: - introduction: ends with a thesis statement (your argument) - at least three main body paragraphs, each containing one supporting point for your thesis - your essay must also contain at least three quotations from the play to support your thesis - conclusion: reiterates your argument and does not introduce any new information - avoid making references to yourself (no "i") and using contractions (no "can't") Essay topics: 1-) do the macbeths have a good marriage? why or why not? 2-) contrast macbeth and banquo. in what three ways are they different? 3-) contrast macbeth and lady macbeth. in what three ways are they different? 4-) was duncan a "good" king? why or why not? 5-) do the witches control the events in the play? why or why not? 6-) pick three strong images and discuss their functions in the play. 7-) find three instances of dramatic irony and discuss their function in the play. 8-) one of the major themes of macbeth is appearance vs. reality. find three instances where things are not as they seem. what effect do thse episodes have on our understanding of the play?

7 Feb 2012, 7:38 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: When will Capricorns learn to relax?

7 Feb 2012, 7:37 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: i like her alot..but shes married.what should i do?

so theres more to this story than just the title. i recently visited miami and met a beautiful lady. shes a dr, successful and everything i could imagine as the perfect lady for me. Anyway shes Indian and had an arranged marriage. her husband is back in India. He has more than one wife.Shes unhappy and not used to a man doing simple things like buying her dinner, opening doors. Simple things. When we hang out its like we've known each other for years.Shes a really sweet lady and i think she deserves better. Only thing is shes a married lady. I dont know what I should do. Maybe I shouldn't take it so seriously? (excuse the punctuation and non capitalized sentences.) Help!!!

7 Feb 2012, 7:19 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: i have this man that is falling in love with me i really like him and he's great but i don't feel that spark.?

I prayed for God to send me a good man for a long time. Well I think he finally did after 6 yrs. He's a great guy he does nothing wrong and he's every into me and even talking about marriage. I really like him aloft and want the same things as he does. My kids like him alot also. But I don't feel that spark with him like i felt before when i was in adore. I have had one adore in my life and im 43 and been married 2xs and it was not with either one of my husbands. We have talked about everything below the sun about each other and what we want and out past and future. Everything seems to be perfect. Almost too good to be true that type. Why am I not feeling like im in adore or that spark that I want to feel so much. Is it just me or is my gut feeling telling me that there might be something wrong and the too good to be true thing might be something up with this guy. he even wants to move here to be closer to me and things. we have seen each other 3 times. its not that im not attracted to him so can someone please help me. I have myself set with insurance and somewhat taking care of my kids. I am scared if i ever receive married he wont be able to take care of me financially or he will bail on me like others have. someone please help me figure this out. He's too good to let go...will the spark arrive later or should it already be there? Lost and confused in Alabama

7 Feb 2012, 6:53 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: How do I get through to him?

My husband and I have been married 8 years. He's been in the army reserved throughout our marriage and has been overseas to Iraq. In the past year, we moved around a lot and in that year my dad passed away suddenly. With the death of my dad and the isolation is was a very difficult year. Shortly after my husband and I moved again and then he left for Afghanistan. When he came home from R & R he said he didn't want to be married to me anymore. Not only that but he wanted me to pack my things and leave. We've been married for 8 but have been friends for 12 years. I have never seen this side of him. He was icy... We tried to talk about it but he said he wanted different things and he was a different person now. ( I had emails from him 2 weeks prior saying he loved me). We're trying to talk things out a bit and now he's back in Afghanistan. How do I talk to him when he's so distant and trying to keep everyone emotionally distant? I adore him and we've never split before or even had a lot of arguments.. so this is from left field. How can I help him through this time? I don't want our relationship thrown away.

7 Feb 2012, 6:52 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: What can my husband & I do with each other that's therapeutic?

Do you know of a website or anything that will give us like daily tasks are cute little games we can play to help us be closer in our marriage or something? Something besides sex obviously to build our friendship.

7 Feb 2012, 6:44 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: World history project?

Fredrick Douglass Poem ? Can someone help me make a poem for world history using these 10 facts? 1)Frederick Douglass, an American abolitionist, editor, orator, author, statesman and reformer, was born on February 14, 1818 2) In 1837, Douglass met Anna Murray, a free African-American, in Baltimore while he was still held in slavery. They were married soon after he obtained his freedom; 3) Douglass escaped slavery on September 3, 1838 boarding a train to Havre de Grace, Maryland dressed in a sailor's uniform and carrying identification papers provided by a free black seaman. 4) In 1843, Douglass participated in the American Anti-Slavery Society's Hundred Conventions project, a six month tour of meeting halls throughout the east and middle west of the United States. He participated in the Seneca Falls Convention, the birthplace of the American feminist movement, and was a signatory of its Declaration of Sentiments. 5)Douglass' most well-known work is his autobiography, Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass, an American Slave, which was published in 1845. 6) In 1851, Douglass merged the North Star with Gerrit Smith's Liberty Party Paper to form Frederick Douglass' Paper, which was published until 1860. 7) In 1872, he became the first African American to receive a nomination for Vice President of the United States, having been nominated to be Victoria Woodhull's running mate on the Equal Rights Party ticket without his knowledge 8) In 1877, Douglass was appointed a United States Marshal. In 1881, he was appointed Recorder of Deeds for the District of Columbia. 9) In 1884, two years after the death of his first wife, Douglass married Helen Pitts, a white feminist from Honeoye, New York. Frederick and Helen Pitts Douglass faced a storm of controversy as a result of their marriage, since she was a white lady and nearly 20 years younger than he. 10)On February 20, 1895, Frederick Douglass died of a massive heart attack or stroke in his adopted hometown of Washington D.C. He is buried in Mount wish Cemetery in Rochester, NY.

7 Feb 2012, 6:43 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Fredrick Douglass Poem ?

Can someone help me make a poem for world history using these 10 facts? 1)Frederick Douglass, an American abolitionist, editor, orator, author, statesman and reformer, was born on February 14, 1818 2) In 1837, Douglass met Anna Murray, a free African-American, in Baltimore while he was still held in slavery. They were married soon after he obtained his freedom; 3) Douglass escaped slavery on September 3, 1838 boarding a train to Havre de Grace, Maryland dressed in a sailor's uniform and carrying identification papers provided by a free black seaman. 4) In 1843, Douglass participated in the American Anti-Slavery Society's Hundred Conventions project, a six month tour of meeting halls throughout the east and middle west of the United States. He participated in the Seneca Falls Convention, the birthplace of the American feminist movement, and was a signatory of its Declaration of Sentiments. 5)Douglass' most well-known work is his autobiography, Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass, an American Slave, which was published in 1845. 6) In 1851, Douglass merged the North Star with Gerrit Smith's Liberty Party Paper to form Frederick Douglass' Paper, which was published until 1860. 7) In 1872, he became the first African American to receive a nomination for Vice President of the United States, having been nominated to be Victoria Woodhull's running mate on the Equal Rights Party ticket without his knowledge 8) In 1877, Douglass was appointed a United States Marshal. In 1881, he was appointed Recorder of Deeds for the District of Columbia. 9) In 1884, two years after the death of his first wife, Douglass married Helen Pitts, a white feminist from Honeoye, New York. Frederick and Helen Pitts Douglass faced a storm of controversy as a result of their marriage, since she was a white lady and nearly 20 years younger than he. 10)On February 20, 1895, Frederick Douglass died of a massive heart attack or stroke in his adopted hometown of Washington D.C. He is buried in Mount wish Cemetery in Rochester, NY.

7 Feb 2012, 6:42 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Can someone please help me make a poem about fredrick douglass?

Could someone please help me make a poem using these 10 facts ? ? 1)Frederick Douglass, an American abolitionist, editor, orator, author, statesman and reformer, was born on February 14, 1818 2) In 1837, Douglass met Anna Murray, a free African-American, in Baltimore while he was still held in slavery. They were married soon after he obtained his freedom; 3) Douglass escaped slavery on September 3, 1838 boarding a train to Havre de Grace, Maryland dressed in a sailor's uniform and carrying identification papers provided by a free black seaman. 4) In 1843, Douglass participated in the American Anti-Slavery Society's Hundred Conventions project, a six month tour of meeting halls throughout the east and middle west of the United States. He participated in the Seneca Falls Convention, the birthplace of the American feminist movement, and was a signatory of its Declaration of Sentiments. 5)Douglass' most well-known work is his autobiography, Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass, an American Slave, which was published in 1845. 6) In 1851, Douglass merged the North Star with Gerrit Smith's Liberty Party Paper to form Frederick Douglass' Paper, which was published until 1860. 7) In 1872, he became the first African American to receive a nomination for Vice President of the United States, having been nominated to be Victoria Woodhull's running mate on the Equal Rights Party ticket without his knowledge 8) In 1877, Douglass was appointed a United States Marshal. In 1881, he was appointed Recorder of Deeds for the District of Columbia. 9) In 1884, two years after the death of his first wife, Douglass married Helen Pitts, a white feminist from Honeoye, New York. Frederick and Helen Pitts Douglass faced a storm of controversy as a result of their marriage, since she was a white lady and nearly 20 years younger than he. 10)On February 20, 1895, Frederick Douglass died of a massive heart attack or stroke in his adopted hometown of Washington D.C. He is buried in Mount wish Cemetery in Rochester, NY.

7 Feb 2012, 6:41 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Marriage? State, Federal, Secular, Same Sex. What is It?

i know same sex marriage is not "illegal" in the sense that the police wont beat down your door at 3 A.M if two gay people had a wedding ceremony but Is there a marriage recognized by the state but not Federal government? like people gay ppl who receive married in NY wont have their marriage be valid at the federal level? or in states that are dont allow same sex marriage? whats the difference between secular and religious marriage, because Congress can pass legislation till they turn blue in the face, but catholic and SPECIALLY muslim institutions wont marry people of the same sex... or will they? in the TV show friends Rosse's ex wife marries another lady in NY in the 90's before it was "legalized" or is that just tv? isn;t the government already breaking the establishment clause by giving married ppl tax cuts and so on? or is that a completely different form of marriage and thats why people receive married in courts in front of a judge? and is that what gay people receive denied? if so then why? if has nothing to do with religion? please help me understand. because theres ALOT of ignorance on BOTH sides of the same sex marriage debate

7 Feb 2012, 6:35 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Please help with child custody question?

We live in MT. That's were possess a home. Seems like my marriage is doomed. My wife plans on taking both of our kids back to NH with her, where she is from. My babies are 9 months old and 3.5 years old. Can she just take my kids away like that, specially their home is here in MT? What can I do to prevent her from taking off with my two babies? Please help

7 Feb 2012, 6:34 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Can someone help me with this back blurb?

i keep asking this question but no one wants to help ;( its a SF/Drama with a little snip of the plot - The years is 2020 and the world has greatly changed after a nuclear disaster has killed everyone who is O positive (1/3 of the world) a few years earlyer - Money is now more important then ever, and everyone is starting to become more and more desensitized from the world around them - Jennifer and Jason Williams are a young marriage couple who's marriage is on the rocks after Jennifer's on going depression after a miscarriage (don't want the reader to know she has had a miscarriage in the back blurb) - The Williams end up finding and abandoned child named Ryan walking aimlessly on the side of the road tardy at night. The disoriented boy strangely has no memory of who is mom and dad are / where he lives. every he can seem to remeber is his first name and that he was told to keep walking north - The Williams take him in and go to police, the child in the family's cousitey after a background check is done, and the boys dad/mom are found. - In the start of the book Ryan shows little to no emotion. But he is extremely good at reading people. He also has a way with animals and does very well in school (can solve math problems without even needing to write anything out among other things and is seen by others as a genius.) ---- the story goes on but this is probably were i want the blog to clip off-----

7 Feb 2012, 6:26 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Can someone please help me wright a back blurb to my novel?

7 Feb 2012, 6:24 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: can you help me write a back blurb to my novel?

7 Feb 2012, 6:23 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: what should be my first book?

Like everyone else who has ever taken up the name "writer" I want to publish something. But I question what nice of book should become my first novel/novella. I have tons of plots in my busy head but im not sure which plot to go by and have them already written. Here are some in one sentence summary.: (Pick one.) 1. A girl meets a witch who ends up being her pal and trouble for a tiny town. 2. A boy is taken to the past in his dream with desperate wish to change things and starts taking matters into his possess hands. 3. A man faces a close death experience that causes him to start a 7:3:40 mission-affect seven lives in three ways in forty days. 4. A boy and his dad take in an estranged half-sister as they try to patch up the dad's broken marriage. 5. A ex-criminal lady helps a fired detective clear his name in a rough city. 6. An outer space civilization welcomes new members and new sabotage threats as well. 7. A boy and girl's relationship is threatened by a new girl who seeks to have him to herself. 8. A lady finds this unusual connection with a man she doesn't know and grows to adore him. 9. A girl meets the boy of her dreams-who cares if he isn't human. 10. Any other ideas or I hate them every or they every suck try again. And if you have any additional comments on the topic of" first bool" then you are welcome to share them. * Spelling mistake: i meant first book not first bool. Sounds like first bull. Im sorry.

7 Feb 2012, 6:16 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Why do some people use divorce as a conclusion?

Is it the person who is resistant to want to help the marriage, is it their fault? Or the person making the compromise/ultimatum. What really serves as the wedge that ends up in divorce for marriages? The person that does not want to receive any help/doesn't think there is an issue when there is... or?

7 Feb 2012, 5:50 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Could someone please help me write a back blurb to my novel?

i keep asking this question but no one wants to help ;( its a SF/Drama his a little snip of the plot - The years is 2020 and the world has greatly changed after a nuclear disaster has killed everyone who is O positive (1/3 of the world) a few years earlyer - Money is now more important then ever, and everyone is starting to become more and more desensitized from the world around them - Jennifer and Jason Williams are a young marriage couple who's marriage is on the rocks after Jennifer's on going depression after a miscarriage (don't want the reader to know she has had a miscarriage in the back blurb) - The Williams end up finding and abandoned child named Ryan walking aimlessly on the side of the road tardy at night. The disoriented boy strangely has no memory of who is mom and dad are / where he lives. every he can seem to remeber is his first name and that he was told to keep walking north - The Williams take him in and go to police, the child in the family's cousitey after a background check is done, and the boys dad/mom are found. - In the start of the book Ryan shows little to no emotion. But he is extremely good at reading people. He also has a way with animals and does very well in school (can solve math problems without even needing to write anything out among other things and is seen by others as a genius.) - Story goes on, Ryan and the Williams become like a family. ----this is probably were i want the blog to clip off----- - The boy's dad is found and takes him back to their manor a few months later. - The Williams end up having a bad intuition about the boys dad and track him down. - Here The Williams find out Ryan is a clone (the climax) - and then the story goes on to answer every the questions. I already know how the story ends. Thank you so much for reading. If you could help me arrive up with something that would be great i appreciate it!

7 Feb 2012, 4:58 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Why is Liberal Tolerance Is Still Not a Two-Way Street?

Mike Adams recently reported on the landmark ruling of the 6th Circuit Court of Appeals in the Julea Ward case, noting that the decision eloquently defended “fundamental religious freedom against a full-frontal assault from the LGBT community.” In the court’s possess words, “Tolerance is a two-way road. Otherwise, the rule mandates orthodoxy, not anti-discrimination.” Unfortunately, there are daily reminders that tolerance is anything but a two-way road in America, and I’m not just talking about extreme personal opinions, like the ones expressed in this email from a man named Boris (yet another listener to my dialogue with gay activist Mitchell Gold). He took exception to my affirmation that marriage is the union of a man and a lady, writing: “So you advocate for human rights violations against gays. You want gays to be executed, killed and tortured in the name of religion? You don’t think gays deserve ANY human rights or protections and in the name of religion you can do anything to gays. “You are pure bad. Pure bad personified. I know that it must hurt you not to be able to kill or detain and torture your fellow American citizens just because they are gay but at least you can condone violence against black and Arab gay persons. “You are [a] sick, vile person without any human decency. “I despise you and the violent hatred you espouse. I wish that one day you, your kids and grandchildren will face precisely the fate you advocate for gays to endure. “You are one sick puppy." “Without any respect whatsoever, because I do not respect people who adore violence and murder in the name of their religion.” Ah yes, the enlightened voice of tolerance! It reminds me of a comment posted by a viewer of a YouTube clip which included my interview on the Tyra Banks show where I dared to suggest that the best case scenario for a child struggling with Gender Identity Disorder was that the child be helped from the inside out, with the goal that the child would eventually feel at home with his or her body. (I advocated for this as opposed to a boy going to school dressed in girl’s clothing, then being put on hormone blockers to delay the onset of puberty, then going through sex-change surgery at the youngest possible age, then being on hormones for life, still never becoming a fully-functioning male or female).

7 Feb 2012, 4:35 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: I Need Help With The Back Blurb for My Novel!!!?

its a SF/Drama his a little snip of the plot - The years is 2020 and the world has greatly changed after a nuclear disaster has killed everyone who is O positive (1/3 of the world) a few years earlyer - Money is now more important then ever, and everyone is starting to become more and more desensitized from the world around them - Jennifer and Jason Williams are a young marriage couple who's marriage is on the rocks after Jennifer's on going depression after a miscarriage (don't want the reader to know she has had a miscarriage in the back blurb) - The Williams end up finding and abandoned child named Ryan walking aimlessly on the side of the road tardy at night. The disoriented boy strangely has no memory of who is mom and dad are / where he lives. every he can seem to remeber is his first name and that he was told to keep walking north - The Williams take him in and go to police, the child in the family's cousitey after a background check is done, and the boys dad/mom are found. - In the start of the book Ryan shows little to no emotion. But he is extremely good at reading people. He also has a way with animals and does very well in school (can solve math problems without even needing to write anything out among other things and is seen by others as a genius.) - Story goes on, Ryan and the Williams become like a family. ----this is probably were i want the blog to clip off----- - The boy's dad is found and takes him back to their manor a few months later. - The Williams end up having a bad intuition about the boys dad and track him down. - Here The Williams find out Ryan is a clone (the climax) - and then the story goes on to answer every the questions. I already know how the story ends. Thank you so much for reading. If you could help me arrive up with something that would be great i appreciate it!

7 Feb 2012, 4:33 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: SHALL I TELL MY FRIEND THAT HER SOON TO BE HUSBAND IS CHEATING ON HER BIG TIME? HELP PLS?

I dont know really if i should giggle or feel sorry for my pal. I live in the states. My university pal who we kept in touch over the years lives in australia. We talk often and she told me about wonderful guy she met etc.. and in 2 months of meeting they r already talking about marriage...initially i warned her that not every that glitters is not gold so dont rush. But i realised she loves him so i stopped telling her my opinion. To make long story short my gf is very stunning and she looks like angelina jolie and the guy is 50 plus and he looks horrible. Anyways I placed ad on match.com site that i am looking for partner.................................… guess what i got nearly 30 replies from men and one of them is the bf of my pal............i never met the guy personally but he sent me his picture and he looks exactly like my pal's bf and the age is same and the work is same. I also asked him if he was single and he said yeah he split up with his gf ha ha and every the description of the gf he gave is exactly the same of my pal.....................Now I feel really bad for her and i am certain it is the same guy cos she showed me picture of him and her together. What shall I do now? Shall I forward every the emails to her with attached picture and btw he is looking for sex ha ha.......I feel really bad but i dont know what to do? How shall I break the news to my pal? P.S. I am 28 n my pal is 25. Guess wa happen. I asked that guy if he knows michelle's as he looks familiar and he told me yes i am michelle's bf and pls i am at your mercy dont tell michelle. He also blamed on stress cos they would not spend the christmas together blah blah and more excuses due to age gap. I told him i am bit surprised cos michelle told me the two of u r getting married..he says pls dont tell michelle and i will change and pls give us a chance as couple cos i really adore michelle. He actually told me he is buying the ring and they are getting engaged during new year.......I dont know what to do now? Shall I tell her cos he most probably is cheating on her with other women and i just happen 2 be one of them.Or shall I be silent about it? I also heard that my pal and this 50 yrs old dude are trying for baby together. OMG I am really shocked. I feel sorry for her but how can 25 yrs old lady in her right mind try for a baby and want to marry someone half her age and who is cheating on her. p.s.s. he told he loves my pal( which i think is a lie given the fact he is cheating on her) and i heard he is so controlling her life that she cannot chat thru the phone any male friends.He told her to cease every contacts with any male friends which i think is the biggest shock if she ever finds out he is cheating on her. AND when I told him that I feel bad and i want to tell my pal he said oh " do u think michelle will believe you and look you as innocent? i dont think michelle will look you as innocent...........that that point i wanted to say wtf u talking about because he is the one in relationship not me and we didn't meet or anything it every happened online. What will you do if u r in my shoes? tell her ? By the way today another pal of mine who uses the same online dating showed me that he sent her email today with his pictures and asking her to have sex with him. My stomach really hurts now so bad and i am honestly shivering. What shall I do? Obviously he is still cheating on her. Honest to God i am shivering and shocked. My pal trusts him and i am so worried for her she might catch disease from him. What shall I do?

7 Feb 2012, 4:19 pm | click here for answers

Resolved Question: How would you help this muslim girl?

I know a lady from the mosque, and quite quickly knowing her she told me she's in an unhappy marriage. Her husband is pakistani and i really, really dislike him. He works a lot, doesn't help her with kids, doesn't provide for her properly and won't even buy her a car. She lives with his family and they have fights regularly. She looks depressed and kids look neglected. She says she wants to leave but ends up going back because she can't deal with it every. How do i help her?i feel really bad for the innocents involved in this mess. *sigh* i did halpern she went back home. But she cries to me every few days and drags kids out to stay with friends every other day.. it's not fair on them wallah.

7 Feb 2012, 4:17 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Marriage at age 18 and seconds away from wedding!! Help on thoughts?

My good pal is getting married in a month n the guy is 18 n girl is 17. I'm very glad for them but I don't like the fact that they're getting merry at this age. I'm a strong catholic man n deeply against divorce. He ask me last week if he's doing a right thing? N I was surprised when he ask me that cus the wedding is close. I didn't want to be negative abt it so I jus wish him the best. knowing him, he is not ready to settle down. The bride n I never receive along but I kno she hasn't been faithful to my good pal. Shud I REALLY tell my good pal what I really think or jus ignore it n wish them the best? I really wish them the best tho!! Sorry for spelling errors! At work! Oh btw I kno my choices but which are the best choice!!

7 Feb 2012, 4:05 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Can anyone explain or feel this way about maturity and is it normal to feel this way?

I apologise if you find it disrespectful or unmannered - My bf is 22 and i'm 19. Recently i've started imaging myself having sex with my long distant relationship boyfriend, and making adore with him. I imagine us living as a family with our kids around. Sometimes i try to cease myself from feeling that way, but i still end up thinking about it, and i also have these thoughts when i'm in the church which is very bad. i tend to think about it when i'm going to bed at night or when i'm not speaking to anyone. I adore my boyfriend and we've been on distant relationship for a year and half, and recently i asked him at what age will he receive married?.... and he said after the four years of completing his Uni course and thats at age 27, and he went on to tell me that he would rather be alone than marry anyone else but me. He is a virgin which is same as me, and i want to stay chaste until marriage, also am not comfortable speaking directly about sex, because i feel that it's not right speaking about it. The only thing he mentions is asking me if i will be the mom of his baby, and i said yes to it. I don't know if he thinks the same way am thinking, because i don't want to freak him out by telling him this. So is it okay to think about this, if not how can i cease. And don't tell me to go whatch porn or masturbate, cause thats wrong, and i don't feel the urge of doing something i just imagine it. Advice/help will be useful, and matured answers will also be appreciated.

7 Feb 2012, 3:54 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Should I move to Japan?

I just told my Navy boyfriend of 3 years that I would move to Japan with him. He will be stationed close Tokyo for 18 months of sea duty. He plans to live off base so that I can live with him. I think its a great opportunity for me to experience another culture. One of my dreams is to travel around the world. So far, my friends are glad for me but of course my parents have plenty of concerns. I am 26 years old and live in San Diego. I graduated from college with a BS in biology last May. I have not found full-time employment. I am a part-time private tutor. Big Concerns (mostly from the parents): 1. "I will miss you" I will miss a lot of people. But from my experience the friends that are truly friends will keep in contact no matter where you are in the world. There is always Skype. 2. "Is he the one? What if it doesn't work out?" I don't know. I adore him and he loves me. We are good together and he treats me with respect. So far, he has proven he is responsible and has a good head on his shoulders. He is 5 years older than me. We have discussed marriage but he has not proposed. If he did I would say yes but I will not receive married just because it would make moving/living in Japan easier. My parents question my judgment of men anyway because I was previously married to a man who didn't show his true colors until it was too tardy. I told my step-dad I would make sure I had enough money with me for a return flight to Japan if need be. 3. "What about your career? Money? Healthcare?" This is my biggest concern. Currently, I don't have a career or even a real job. I'm not sure if this is because of the economy or my lack of experience or not knowing the right people. My boyfriend currently supports me financially. I need to be employed while living in Japan and I am looking into being an English teacher. I am definitely putting my career on hold but I am not sure if it is such a bad idea. I am not sure if this is going to hurt or help my ability to receive a job when I arrive back. As a female, there is always the problem of having babies and then returning to the workforce. I guess my situation is similar, except instead of having babies I will be out of the country. As far a healthcare goes, I guess I don't really care. I am healthy and Japan has hospitals too. Its not like my current health care is awesome anyway. I want an objective opinion from Yahoo.

7 Feb 2012, 3:51 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: If someone can write a good back blurb to my story ill give them 10 points:)?

Ok so i'm not going to go into detail with this, it's just a basic outline so you can receive an idea. If someone could help me write a black blurb to my story that would be great. i will give the best response 10 points because I've been at this for about and hour and a bit, and its difficult to know how much i wanna give a way to grab the readers attention. The novel is a SF/Drama *The years is 2020 and the world has greatly changed after a nuclear disaster has killed everyone who is O positive (1/3 of the world) a few years earlyer * Money is now more important then ever, and everyone is starting to become more and more desensitized from the world around them * Jennifer and Jason Williams are a young marriage couple who's marriage is on the rocks after Jennifer's on going depression after a miscarriage (don't want the reader to know she has had a miscarriage in the back blurb) * The Williams end up finding and abandoned child named Ryan walking aimlessly on the side of the road tardy at night. The disoriented boy strangely has no memory of who is mom and dad are / where he lives. every he can seem to remeber is his first name and that he was told to keep walking north * The Williams take him in and go to police, the child in the family's cousitey after a background check is done, and the boys dad/mom are found. * In the start of the book Ryan shows little to no emotion. But he is extremely good at reading people. He also has a way with animals and does very well in school (can solve math problems without even needing to write anything out among other things and is seen by others as a genius.) * Story goes on, Ryan and the Williams become like a family. ----this is probably were i want the blog to clip off----- * The boy's dad is found and takes him back to their manor a few months later. * The Williams end up having a bad intuition about the boys dad and track him down. * Here The Williams find out Ryan is a clone (the climax) * and then the story goes on to answer every the questions. I already know how the story ends. Thank you so much for reading. If you could help me arrive up with something that would be great i appreciate it!

7 Feb 2012, 3:48 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: What do you think of a single guy hiring a Surrogate mom so that he can have children of his own?

I'm ugly, really UGLY ! (Think 'Shrek' like ugly). But I'm really nice and caring, I work as a Teaching Assistant and i adore to help other kids who are having problems in life. To me helping others is the only thing that makes my life worth living. Now here's the problem: I would like to have kids but I am 47 and other women who are 47 don't want to have kids are are simply UNABLE to have them at that age. I'm fairly well-off financially and can easily retire from my job as I'm only doing it as a hobby to be around others who need my help. I asked some women if I should try to find a lady who would want me for marriage and 9 out of 10 told me that with my looks the marriage would end in divorce in weeks, not years ! So if I have a child with a lady, she will divorce me, take away the child, and I will spend the relax of my life making support payments to a child I never receive to look anyways. If I have a surrogate mom provide me with a child then I can give that child the best of adore and care and I won't have to worry about never seeing the child ever again, the way it happens in divorce. What's your opinion?

7 Feb 2012, 3:42 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Is this abuse or is he just not attracted or am i overreacting?

i guess my husband and i are still trying to "reconcile" our marriage after a long separation due to his being "uncertain" of his feelings for me ...he was unfaithful also. i dont think he is attracted to me at every, i've always had my doubts since we were first married. i'll give you some examples... one time when i brought him lunch to work his male co-worker who met me for the first time looked at my husband with an astonished look on his face and said "she's not ugly..".....to which he didnt respond. he never compliments me, when he has days off from work he'd rather stay home with his roommates, he's going out partying again, he's on a sports team and acts like he's a superstar athlete...also, he still ditches our plans to hang out with his friends. if i am feeling depressed or need help he doesnt offer. i feel like instead of trying to merge our lives together again that he is defining boundaries between our lives. he complains about almost every aspect of my personality whenever i look him and he is critical of almost everything about me. i hate feeling like i am never good enough, pretty enough etc. to hold his attention or keep his committment. he also straight hangs up on me whenever he feels like it and he never apologizes if he hurts my feelings. sex is infrequent and when we do have sex he makes comments about "doing every the work"... another recent time when i went to meet with him for breakfast he stared at me and laughed about the dry skin on my forehead and nose.....(i had tried really difficult to look nice).... i told him he was being rude and he said that if he had "sheyat on his face he would want to know"...i then told him.."i am a pretty lady"...to which he rolled his eyes and gave me this look of 'whatever' on his face... i am 40 pounds more than i used to be when we met but i just had a baby a few months ago and i have post partum depresssion.... i cant help but feel insecure with a "husband" who wont live with me, spend time with me, make me feel special, cherished and valued. to top it every off...another reason we separated besides the cheating is that he has always been looking for a younger and prettier lady than me. he makes me feel like he is settling for me and is never content to be my man. am i overreacting or would you feel that way also if you were me. i am overweight now, but i dont think that i am ugly and it really bothers me that he acts like he isnt attracted to me and i wonder if he ever has been. he never ever compliments me on my looks or anything. he also will not tell his friends whom he spends 90% of his free time with that we are reconciling our marriage....why??? i dont know??? he is over 30 and acts like he cares about what his friends think like he was 16 or something. about his friends, they are every divorced or unhappily married. any input would be appreciated...is this abuse or is he just not attracted or am i overreacting??? thanks

7 Feb 2012, 3:27 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Can you help me write a back blurb to my story???

7 Feb 2012, 3:26 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: is this abuse or is he just not attracted or am i overreacting?

7 Feb 2012, 3:24 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: I am a 20 year old virgin. Need help!?

Back in high school I was one of the few kids saving sex for marriage and now that I'm older I don't care anymore. I don't really have a difficult time talking to girls but sometimes I'll run out of things to say... So it never goes anywhere.. any advise to help receive me laid would be awesome!

7 Feb 2012, 2:42 pm | click here for answers

Resolved Question: Should I feel guilty?

I have known my wife for 25 years and have been married for 21 of them. every of our friends use our marriage as a model for what their marriages or relationships should be. And it was fantastic for the longest time. We loved to travel together and have certainly done a lot of that. We have raised two amazing girls, ages 13 and 16 now. Other than the traveling, we never really had that much in common. We both had different interests. I always thought that this is why we were so glad . We werent together 24/7. In 21 years of marriage, weve only had one battle. At least one real battle. Otherwise just minor disagreements every once in a while. For the past few years, this has started to bother me a little bit. As I got older, I felt myself wanting to share more with her but she has shown no interest in the things I like. At least not the enthusiasm I want her to have. And visa versa. Two years ago, my wife was diagnosed with a brain tumor. It is the same one that Ted Kennedy has. The prognosis was 1 to 1.5 years. I take my marriage vows very seriously and have been by her side every step of the way. A second tumor developed a few months ago. Now my life consists of giving meds and changing diapers which I do happily everyday. She did not ask to receive sick and it wasnt her fault. She is now laying next to me in a hospital bed in our room with only weeks if not days to go. Anyway, now my dilema. Let me first say that I am feeling guilty and ashamed of myself. One of my best friends has his possess tiny medical practice. He has a lady working for him who is like family to him and his wife. So over the years I have gotten to know her very well. She is always at their home for holidays and other events when my wife and I are their also. She has also started to help my older daughter to steer as I have not had the time taking care of my wife. For the last few years, I have really gotten to know this other lady. We have so much in common we are almost like the same person. For the past few months I cant cease thinking about her. I have already mourned the death of my marriage as well as the lady that I once knew as my wife. Its a long story and I wish none of you ever go through it but she hasnt been her for 2 years. The only thing left is losing her and mourning her physical being. Me and this other lady, she is now single by the way, have been talking more and more. I stopped by her office the other day and she asked me to lunch. A 1/2 hour lunch suddenly turned into a 2-3 hour lunch. We both a great time and I cant remember being that glad for at least 4-5 years. Both she and I know nothing will happen while my wife is still with me. BUT I cant help but feel guilty and ashamed about the feelings Im having. Am I a bad person? Me and this other person are seeing each other on Saturday to talk. Nothing more. I know she feels the same way about me.

7 Feb 2012, 1:44 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Should you get married in church if the guy can't afford it but the girl can?

Girl's parents doesn't want the guy's parents to attend the wedding coz they are both not presentable since they are needy people. The guy's dad also is living with his 2nd family (and left his mom when he's still a kid) and is on a wheelchair. How can the girl tell the guy of her parents' request without him getting hurt? Should they just marry in the court instead so there won't be issue about the guys parents anymore? The girl's family don't approve of the courtroom marriage coz they feel it's like telling to the society that their daughter eloped with a man who can't afford to give her a church wedding n reception We are not in U.S and traditionally, it's the guy's family spending for the wedding here in our country. There's also the issue of race since girl chose a guy with lower education and his family is not that ideal. Guy's mom used to be a househelp but she is retired now. Should they still invite the dad who abandoned them when he's still a child, sell the dowry of his mom to give to his 2nd family. Guy still visits his dad in his old age and forgives him for what he did in the past. If they didn't invite him, the dad's relatives who will be invited will surely react. Does he has to be there when he is not a good husband and good dad to them? Girl mom won't be attending if the guy's parents will stage the church wedding coz it's embarrassing. Girl's mom wants the guy's aunt (sister of his dad) to stand as the mom coz she is more presentable physically and is also wealthy and has position in the society. The real mom will just sit with other guests and guy's aunt will be the one on the stage presidential table assigned to the couple's family. Girl also don't like the idea of inviting guy's half brothers n sisters, even his real siblings coz they are always borrowing money from the guy. every of them just live in and can't even afford a court wedding. When someone is sick or is giving birth, they always ask help from the couple. Girl don't want them to look the wedding coz they might borrow even more when they witness the event. They are like parasites always asking money. That's our culture here in Singapore =( Can't believe that most of you still welcome the guy's dad even if he abandoned them and sold every their possesions to give to his 2nd family. That's why the guy didn't finish school coz he has to fulfill the duties of his dad. Most of us (her friends) don't feel the need to invite the dad anymore since he hasn't been a responsible dad at all

7 Feb 2012, 1:22 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Well could this get any worse?

Supposed to help my exhausted wife receive to the international terminal to look off her tourists. We took the bus and i thought it was the second cease which turned out to be domestic terminal. She was supposed to meet her tourists at the international terminal so I nearly made her tardy for her job. Let's just say that I came out with her this morning at 5am only to stuff things up (again). She went into s tirade of 'stupid' and 'idiot' in front of everyone on the bus. I was so embarrassed. I found texts of her saying 'you are a good man' to her teacher and trying to arrange to meet him. Right now I am waiting in the international terminal and not sure where the wife has gone. I hate that I always seem to stuff things up when it is the first time for me to do them. It's a problem with me trying to do things for her. Anyway my due thanks for dragging myself out of bed is to be left here... So many people looked when she panicked and started ripping into me physically. She is embarrassing and I feel ashamed that I always muck things up. I suspect the relax of the day will proceed with put downs and insults. We are coming apart at the seams and she is turning to other guys. Our marriage is not good.

7 Feb 2012, 1:20 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: What else is there to life?

I know there is sex, marriage, adore, hate, parties, food, jobs, dreams, and relationships. Games, shows, and I know of it every. I know of drugs, drinking, and depression. Happiness, helping people, and adore. I know about science, politics, math, and english. I feel like I have done it every. I haven't done some things but I know things I haven't done I know so much about already. Knowledge is truly the killer of life. I have become bored with life and I want more opportunities in life. I have become a bit anti-social because I know what a person is like just by talking to them for a few minutes. I feel like I know everything that matters. So what else is there?

7 Feb 2012, 12:41 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: ESSAY FOR ENGLISH, ABOUT MACBETH! HELP?

Hi guys! I need to write an essay for english, and it's about MacBeth. The question is "Do Macbeths have a good marriage? Why or why not?" and I need to explain with some quotes. I need some help please!

7 Feb 2012, 12:21 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: WHY IS THIS MARRIED MAN STRAYING? IF THINGS ARENOT WORKING OUT , why do married couples stay together anyway?

Im 37 & single & I have been dealing with a married man who is 33 with two stepchildren(his wife's kids from a previous relationship)& a bilogical daughter that his grandmother raises. every together he has a total of 3 kids to help provide for. I met him in 2010 when he helped repaired my radio in my apartment & he's been after me ever since.His life/ his wife life routine every he does is pay bills, look about his kids,& go to work. thats how my parents marriage was; the spark died & my parents use to battle & my dad cheated but my mom never left for a long time. Why wont the married guy i'm dealin with or his wife leave each other if things arent working out? why doesnot he just be SINGLE so he can date other people. Will his wife eventually find out about me?? what will she do??they live two blocks from me? I want to clip off contact but he keeps pursuing me. Why do people CHEAT/ STRAY in their marriages and relationships instead of trying to work things out with their partner???

7 Feb 2012, 11:59 am | click here for answers

Open Question: Where can i watch this documentary from?

Forced marriage-a documentary is a program that was broadcast on the bbc 2 world channel and i reallly want to watch it but cannot find any possible place where i can watch it....can someone plz help...i would be really appreciative :)

7 Feb 2012, 11:35 am | click here for answers

Resolved Question: why my husband dont want to do sex with me ?

heyy there .. im been married since two years.. and im not glad with married life, cuz my husband is not involve in me since very first day.. on our wedding night he didnt do sex with me, and he slept so early.. and gave me the reason that "i dont want to make u uncomfortable, as we are strangers'.. yes this is totally arrange marriage, my dad pick this man for me.. and after a week of marriage he tried to sex with me, and i wasnt so comfortable.. cuz i wasnt enjoying, he was giving me so much pains.. and he said to me "this is my first time, so thats why its too difficult for me".. although i was virgin too.. but even then i was expecting some comfortable moves ... neways in a whole first year we had hardly three or four times sex.. and after a year his mom was asking "i want my grand child".. so after that he made adore to me.. and now we are blessed with daughter .. but in my whole pregnancy period he didnt make adore to me.. and now its been two years i can even count how many times we had sex .. and lastly he didnt even kiss me .. sometimes i feel there is some other idol in his life, i tried so difficult to look hot and sexy .. at night i wore my sexy night suits, and he said "please do wear proper clothes, i dont like every these vulgur clothes" .. this sentence really killed me, once i said to him, u never wanted to have sex with me, give me the reason .. he said "i adore you so much, but i dont like to do sex, and sex is just a body's frustration".. i said "lets go to some doctor' and he dont want to go according to him there is not any problem ... but i really want to know, why my husband dont want to make adore to me.. is there some mentally problem .. or is he looking some other girl ?? im really so depressed, please help me out and give me some suggestions.. how can i keep my marriage life ?? ... ... ... i no what my previous questions are, i am engaged with my boyfriend.. mostly i submitted the questions of others for opinions, the over question is about my best pal .. she is my childhood pal and im feeling so sorry for her married life .. ... about my english, so yes it not our first language, and i no im not good in it .. well if u do understand my question then please do answer me, cuz im looking forward for ur response .. and if u dont understand what im writing, so feel free to move on some other question except to giving me lectures on correcting english .. cuz my problem is not english here .... i want to slove my pal's issue ... wish to having positive response.

7 Feb 2012, 11:32 am | click here for answers

Open Question: Is he trying to sabotage my college studies? jealous, perhaps?

I'm going to college for pre-nursing and I have tons of things to study. I take my education plans very seriously, and I try to study every day as much as I can. I am a straight A and Honors student. I work part time and my husband works about 34-40 hrs depending on the week. He doesn't receive paid much and changes jobs a lot, which is something that stresses me up because I never know how tomorrow is going to be. I try to discuss things with him about everything that concerns our marriage, finances, etc. Next thing I know, he decides to do things his way. So when I started college he said he'd support me every the way, now he is getting lazy by the minute and working less, and telling me I need to work more (on the top of going to college full time). Let's say he has a day off the day I stay in school the whole day. I arrive home and dishes are in the sink, the bed wasn't made, the dogs weren't fed, and it's a mess in the home. every he does is go to work and back home and sit on the sofa with headsets on watching youtube videos on his computer, every day. Then when I am doing homework, he makes a point to turn the tv noisy and if I ask him to turn it down, he'll complain that he has "no right" to watch his tv! He won't wash the car, won't mow the grass, won't help in any possible way in the home, although I ask him to help me. If possible, he will add to my work load, instead of softening it up. Sometimes I receive very discouraged and think about quitting everything, but then I think it's my future. I'll be graduating college in Dec and transfering to the university next year. I want to be independent. I don't know if he will ever change, so I want to guarantee my future. He complained last yr that he wasn't going to college but I was, so he enrolled in my college, barely finished his one 3-credit course and never wanted to continue. Then complains that I am going to school and he has to work. 11 yrs of marriage, and things look like they're getting worse. No kids, thankfully. Is he trying to sabotage my efforts? Is he jealous I am accomplishing things and he's not? You guys are so great. I'm glad I'm not crazy! Because sometimes it feels like I am. In front of others he acts so normal that people doubt my sanity. Anyway, Grace: I am sorry to hear about your young husband being gone so soon... and I appreciate your powerful insights on my situation. You said it every. I still have this entire year and probably 2 more (I am trying to receive into the accelerated bachelors of nursing in the university), and that's the dilemma I'm going through... stay and put up or receive myself to work fulltime and go to nursing school full time. We don't have an infatuation for each other any longer, it's just plain icy marriage. He doesn't take care of himself anymore... he has gum disease for not brushing his teeth for days at a time when he was traveling in his previous job, he eats like a pig, doesn't care for shaving much... so although I want him to better himself, I lost every the attraction for him. I understand people need to adore ea About counseling, he won't go. He thinks everything is ok, at least that's what he says. Talking to him is useless. Last night I was lying in bed reading a novel for one of my classes, and he came to bed and turned the bedroom tv on, and put it unnecessarily noisy. Then I told him it was noisy and I was reading, he said he needed to hear the tv (we have a tv in the living room). Then I moved to receive comfortable, and he threw a fit that my leg was preventing him to look the entire tv, I had to lie in bed like a mummy, not move a muscle, or even cough (when I coughed a few times, he said it was interrupting the sound of the tv too... oh gosh). I told him that he's acting like a child. I even asked why are you doing every this, to mess my reading up? He said, no, I just want to watch my show on tv. Just as another side note, I found out that my college offers counseling sessions free of charge for us students. Since he won't go to family counseling with me, I went to my first one last week in college. I cried at times, but it felt good to talk about it. Sometimes I think I am so strong, but at other times I feel so vulnerable. I feel like I'm gonna desintegrate, break into pieces. But I manage to receive myself together. But I never told him I went to this counselor in college, and I am scheduled to go back this thursday again. I am so glad to go, it makes me feel "lighter".

7 Feb 2012, 10:55 am | click here for answers

Open Question: Is it lame for a girl to wait until marriage to kiss a guy?

OK- a lot of people say it's lame that I won't kiss any boys until I'm married because they say I'm pretty, I think I'm pretty too-Everyone says I favor KylaPratt, I'm sixteen almost seventeen 5'10", my hips are 39" my bust is 38C, I adore school and helping others through volunteering in church, I want to be a CEO/Pastor/Dance studio Director. This one guy actually stopped this couple from making out once when I was gift, he said "If you kiss her, you kiss me and everyone in here, you shouldn't do that". I heard him say he liked my commitment. Am I really lame for doing this

7 Feb 2012, 10:49 am | click here for answers

Resolved Question: redo weddings what do you think?

I can't help but ask the question why are people loosing the meaning of marriage? I saw a question on here earlier where she wanted a redo wedding cause she got married at the court home. in my opinion When the guy asks you to marry him you receive one wedding and that is it unless of course you receive divorced there is no vow renewl or redo wedding's cause the vows that you say should be sacred enough that you should never have to re say them to remind each other Is it me or are redo weddings tacky and shouldn't be allowed it seems like couples these days are just wanting a wedding and then if something goes wrong or it's not what they wanted then they can redo it and think that because they adore each other then it should be okay Do you agree with me that redo weddings are tacky and that couples who do redo weddings are not really acknowledging the importance of marriage or there vows

7 Feb 2012, 10:49 am | click here for answers

Open Question: When will this bad time end?

My bf and I split 3weeks ago after nearly 2years together. I want to be with this man. My DOB is 9/29/1983 in patalia, Punjab his is 8/10/1979 in Los Angeles, USA don't know time. Can someone please tell me if he will arrive back? Marriage? Please help I feel so down. Will I be glad again soon?

7 Feb 2012, 10:31 am | click here for answers

Resolved Question: How can I comfort my friend ? ?

My pal is crying because she had sex with her husband last night and it really hurt. She stopped using her birth control pills that she's been using for the last 12 years and she's afraid she'll receive pregnant and she and her husband still aren't ready to have kids. She said they've had protected sex for the last 12 years of their marriage and she said it never hurt this bad. How can I help her feel better ?

7 Feb 2012, 10:26 am | click here for answers

Open Question: Indian passport marital status Issue?

I am going to renewing my passport and apply for B1 visa shortly. My problem is 2 years before I got married and very recently we got separated. Is it mandatory to mention the marital status in both Visa & renew forms? Or is that OK if I just leave that column blank. ‘cause I have not obtained any marriage certificate nor divorce certificate. Just have confirmation from the religious organization for both and also i have very less time to do this every. Please help me understanding the procedure

7 Feb 2012, 10:19 am | click here for answers

Open Question: When will this tough time end?

7 Feb 2012, 10:10 am | click here for answers

Open Question: History Question help please!?

2. Which of the following statements is true of life in the New England colonies? A. Those who aspired to the social elite had to be members of a Congregational church." . B. Many New England women were prosperous entrepreneurs." C. Literacy wasn't considered important.". D. Only married women could exercise control of their property." 3. Which of the following was John Rolfe's chief contribution to Virginia's economy? A. His innovations in cultivating tobacco" B. His innovations in rice cultivation" C. His alliance with the Powhatan through his marriage to Pocahontas" D. His invention of a better way to grow short-staple cotton" 4. With respect to the eighteenth century, the concept of the "middle ground" is helpful in A. explaining the attitudes and preferences of the Scots-Irish." B. understanding the attitudes of Indians living between the Appalachians and the Mississippi." . C. explaining the relationship between German and Scots-Irish settlers in the backcountry." . D. understanding the role of Catholic priests in California and the Spanish Southwest." 5. In 1777, who commanded the American soldiers who captured 5,800 British soldiers below General Burgoyne at Saratoga? A. Benedict Arnold" B. William Howe" C. Horatio Gates" D. George Washington" 6. The Articles of Confederation called for which of the following? A. A single legislative body" B. A chief executive" C. The right of the legislature to assess taxes" D. The Northwest Ordinance" 7. The first stirrings of the first Great Awakening took place in A. the Carolinas." . B. New England." . C. the backcountry." . D. Virginia." 8. In which of the following colonial wars did the American colonists capture the fort at Louisbourg and start to crave domination over the entire western region that included the Ohio Valley? A. King George's War" B. King William's War" C. War of Spanish Secession" D. Queen Anne's War" 9. In America, the main influence of the Enlightenment was expressed through A. practical scientific experimentation. B. moral values." . C. family life." D. philosophies of religion." . D. philosophies of religion." . 10. Parliament passed the Coercive Acts, known in America as the Intolerable Acts, in response to A. the Boston Massacre." . B. insults addressed to the customs commissioners." . C. Patrick Henry's Resolves." . D. the Boston Tea Party." . 11. Jacques Cartier sailed to the New World in 1534 in search of A. Montreal." B. Newfoundland." . C. the Gulf of St. Lawrence." . D. a northwest passage to China."

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