Resolved Question: why my husband dont want to do sex with me ?
heyy there .. im been married since two years.. and im not glad with married life, cuz my husband is not involve in me since very first day.. on our wedding night he didnt do sex with me, and he slept so early.. and gave me the reason that "i dont want to make u uncomfortable, as we are strangers'.. yes this is totally arrange marriage, my dad pick this man for me.. and after a week of marriage he tried to sex with me, and i wasnt so comfortable.. cuz i wasnt enjoying, he was giving me so much pains.. and he said to me "this is my first time, so thats why its too difficult for me".. although i was virgin too.. but even then i was expecting some comfortable moves ... neways in a whole first year we had hardly three or four times sex.. and after a year his mom was asking "i want my grand child".. so after that he made adore to me.. and now we are blessed with daughter .. but in my whole pregnancy period he didnt make adore to me.. and now its been two years i can even count how many times we had sex .. and lastly he didnt even kiss me .. sometimes i feel there is some other idol in his life, i tried so difficult to look hot and sexy .. at night i wore my sexy night suits, and he said "please do wear proper clothes, i dont like every these vulgur clothes" .. this sentence really killed me, once i said to him, u never wanted to have sex with me, give me the reason .. he said "i adore you so much, but i dont like to do sex, and sex is just a body's frustration".. i said "lets go to some doctor' and he dont want to go according to him there is not any problem ... but i really want to know, why my husband dont want to make adore to me.. is there some mentally problem .. or is he looking some other girl ?? im really so depressed, please help me out and give me some suggestions.. how can i keep my marriage life ?? ... ... ... i no what my previous questions are, i am engaged with my boyfriend.. mostly i submitted the questions of others for opinions, the over question is about my best pal .. she is my childhood pal and im feeling so sorry for her married life .. ... about my english, so yes it not our first language, and i no im not good in it .. well if u do understand my question then please do answer me, cuz im looking forward for ur response .. and if u dont understand what im writing, so feel free to move on some other question except to giving me lectures on correcting english .. cuz my problem is not english here .... i want to slove my pal's issue ... wish to having positive response.
7 Feb 2012, 11:32 am | click here to view more