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Marriage help that works. Dr. Ellen Kreidman, marriage help expert featured on Oprah, has a marriage help program that can help immediately. Over 1 million sold.

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Resources for Troubled Marriages -- When Your Marriage Needs Help

All marriages have good times and some bad times. Don't let tiny issues develop into big ones. Here is help in working through your marriage problems.

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Prayer and Lent. Have you resolved to improve your prayer life during Lent? For many, Lent is a graced opportunity to deepen one's relationship to God through prayer.

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Marriage seminar and marriage help program by Retrouvaille.

Marriage seminar and marriage help program by Retrouvaille. A Marriage Encounter type program providing a compliment to marriage counseling.

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10 Ways to Find a Good Therapist

When we want to improve our bodies we pretty much know where to find help. This time of year the gyms are full and the meeting rooms at Weight Watchers are packed. But what do we do when we want to improve our inner selves, our relationships, or want to find help with depression or ...

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OT Lesson 9 Study Notes: Abraham 1; Genesis 15-17, 21-22

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Sean Slater

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9 Things I Learned in 2009: Living with a Person with Depression

Several of you have made the request over the years that I share my perspectives on living with someone who has chronic depression. I’ve been reluctant to share for many reasons. The first reason I haven’t is that part of living with someone who can spiral downward and inward means that I have to be ...

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Days of our Lives storylines (2000s)

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Days of our Lives storylines (1990s)

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Open Question: how do i handle this issue with my boyfriend?

I posted a recent question earlier this week somewhat similar to this one, to inform you on my situation I'll start from the beginning. Great boyfriend, always cared, trusted, loves me, he has a great family, he has an awesome personality, hes cute, and doesn't lie to me about anything! I've been with him a year and four months and like any other relationship we have our arguments over ridiculous topics. He has never looked at another girl, he has always been straightforward with me, and his mom is almost like a best pal to me. He isn't too glad with his mom and me being best friends because he doesn't want me saying anything to her that will make him embarrassed. He explains to me that he has to face her everyday and not me. I always ignore him and his meaningless/silly complaints because he loves to joke around about it. You are probably thinking I have it good relationship wise, but here is the downfall after every this good. He is overly protective over me. I'm not one of those High school type girls who wears exploiting clothes, who hugs any male as long as everyone is watching, yells and swears as long as her friends are around, and is a straight out drama filled. I would suppose I'm quite, I wear jeans or pajama bottoms depending on if I'm on my period or not, I'm focused on school and my grades, and I don't care much for guys at my High school. I suppose I'm one of those girls who want a good career that can pay for her bills on her possess without any help. I am confident enough to know I won't receive involved with any bad crowds which I have in the past, I have lost a couple close friends to overdoses, I have lost family members due to alcohol poisoning and kidney failure, and I have three aunts that smoke, a step dad and a biological dad that are alcoholics and are failures in their past/gift marriages, and I have one pal who died with her boyfriend in a car accident after being at a party drinking around 12am. I'm self aware of the causes and effects of bad crowds and friends, so overall I'm a smart girl and hoping for a bright future with my boyfriend. I'll explain my boyfriends story and personal backgrounds. He has his GED and he doesn't have a job, we are planning to move in together soon and we can't until he finds a decent paying job that is suited for him, he doesn't want me hanging around any guys and he gets 'upset' when I don't tell him where I'm going or who I'm going with, and I don't believe he has told his mom that he is moving out soon which worries me. Okay, now here is my question after you should understand him, myself, and where we stand in our relationship. He overreacts sometimes about how I feel about him and his looks. He is extremely attractive and I would adore him even if he wasn't! I have expressed that to him a number of times and his replies are always 'So even if I wasn't attractive you would adore me, right? Then how do I know you aren't just saying your attracted to me.' I'm not even sure know how to respond to that, it's like if someone in your family dies your friends could only say so much to you for your loss. He isn't joking about it and of course I would know if he was! Sometimes I receive upset over the fact when I'm not in the mood to be 'bad' he says it is because I'm not attracted to him, and of course that isn't the reason! I'm a very emotional girl and have been diagnosed with bi polar since I've been nine years old. I cannot handle him saying this to me and I've expressed that to him, he says sorry and we fall back into the same routine every three weeks or so. How should I handle this? How would you handle this with your boyfriend/girlfriend? I'm definitely not breaking up with him so please don't suggest that, we are a committed relationship and plan to stay that way! Nice suggestions only please!

10 Mar 2010, 7:13 am | click here for more

Open Question: Can I get a Visa/Residence permit for Germany if my Great Grand Father was German?

Please can someone help me? I am a South African and have been searching for such a long time, without any results. Whenever I try to phone the German consulate, I only receive a ghost voice. I need to find out what the requirements is for an ancestral visa/allow for Germany. And how does it work and what do I need to apply? I have a marriage certificate of my grand parents on which my great grand fathers names appear, and it states that he was a German citizen. Is there companies that can help me trace him in order to obtain a birth/death certificate? How much will something like this cost? Please can someone help me - I dont know what to do anymore, where to look or who to ask. Thank you

10 Mar 2010, 7:06 am | click here for more

Open Question: Why does Hawaii want to make it a Death Penalty offense to ask for the Usurper's records of birth?

We don't know his name -- this man, this usurper -- is it Steven Dunham, Barry Soetoro, or Barack Obama? No one has seen his college records, his Illinois Bar records are scrubbed. Some claim he was born in Hawaii. Kenyans claim he was born in Kenya. He says his Dad was a Kenyan. He may have claimed at times to have been Indonesian -- that is, he may have enrolled in college as a foreign exchange student. There's no marriage certificate for his parents, and the one one divorce record seems somewhat questionable. Hawaii refuses to release any substantial records which would help resolve the issues of this usurper, despite the fact that their possess laws allow them to when there is a legitimate public interest. And now Hawaii attempts to make asking for those records a felony. A capital crime. Capital crimes, felonies, are those possibly subject to the death penalty. Is this still America, the free? http://legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/felony "felony n. 1) a crime sufficiently serious to be punishable by death or a term in state or federal prison, as distinguished from a misdemeanor which is only punishable by confinement to county or local jail and/or a fine. " http://butterdezillion.wordpress.com/2010/02/26/%E2%80%9Cvexatious-requestor%E2%80%9D-bill/ "On January 27th Hawaii State Senator Will Espero introduced SB2937 , which would add to Hawaii’s existing open records law, UIPA, a provision to label as “vexatious requestors” people who exhibit 2 or more behaviors that the bill calls “abuses” of UIPA." It's only another step towards making it a felony ... Hawaii goose steps towards making gathering information about Obama criminal. The last step of that march ends up like Döllersheim. Look up the fate of that town. "Unauthorized disclosure is permitted. Vital statistics--required information on death and birth certificates--has not been changed by HIPAA. The information required on [a birth or death] certificate can be provided without authorization." http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m0689/is_9_53/ai_n6207442/ Penny Lee: (1) Felonies, by DEFINITION are those crimes for which the death penalty might be applied. Misdemeanors are those crimes which would never receive a death penalty. Do proper research, girl! (2) Laws start as toothpicks and end up as pikes thrust through the body public.

10 Mar 2010, 6:40 am | click here for more

Open Question: How do I get past this?

I have brought a lot of past baggage with me to my current relationship. I was in an abusive marriage for 12 years previously. Aside from the physical and emotional abuse my ex cheated constantly. I have been in this current relationship for 3 years and 3 months. I always have it in the back of my head that he will cheat or is cheating. Now mind you he has never given me a reason to think otherwise except one time 2 years ago. He every of the sudden started wearing cologne to work and paying more attention to his appearance. Then it every stopped after a week. I confronted him on it and of course he denied any wrongdoing. Now mind you I want to believe him. But I really just cannot.I just want to receive past the past so to talk. I don't know how to find out the truth. I also don't want to be paranoid and crazy thinking the worst when maybe there was not anything going on. Please help me. Any advice would be appreciated.

10 Mar 2010, 6:03 am | click here for more

Open Question: Unhappily married: Should I get a divorce?

I got married to my husband when we were both 19. New we are 25 and a half. Neither of us believed in the idea of pre-marital sex and that was a big reason for our marriage at such an early age. I “grew up” faster than my husband. After getting married I became very very responsible. My husband, on the other side, didn’t. After we graduated college (note that in college I had to do so much work for him, write many of his papers, etc), he went on going to grad school but he failed to attend classes the first year and thus failed (he didn’t tell he for a whole year that he is missing classes, I just found out at the end). Now we are together enrolled in school. He’s only going to school because I pressure him to. My husband doesn’t really help me around. He spends a lot of time on the internet reading news, politics, computer games, etc. During that time I have to study, cook, clean and worry for the future. I am just very depressed. I don’t find support in him. I never look him worrying for the future, for me, for us, for our family. I feel abandoned and lonely. Plus, he talks many times down to me. He uses swear words. Physical aggression was very rare (though it happened 3-4 times during these 6 years) but I can’t stand hearing him talk to me like that. I feel so unappreciated. I don’t look myself having kids with him because he is just so irresponsible and I can’t bear the thought of having my kids grow up in an environment in which the dad talks down to the mom. I wanted a loving, supportive husband, someone who can be there for him when I need him. I wanted to feel protected and taken care of. I am feeling none of that and the feeling has been with me for about 3 years. I look at other marriages and when I look husbands being so difficult working and dedicated to their family I receive so so depressed about my possess situation. It went to the point I prayed for my life to end. I have withdrawn from social contact because I am just too unhappy to interact with relatives and friends. I dread the idea of people asking me how I am doing when I feel miserable. I want to receive a divorce. My brain tells me that I have to because I don’t think my husband will change too soon and the way he is is taking a bigger and bigger toll on me every day. Problem is I still adore him to an extend and I worry for him after he will be left by himself. He is very much dependent on me for everything and I don’t want to look him hurt. At the same time though, I know I will myself receive hurt if I leave this go on. Back in September 09, I fell for a classmate. He is very hardworking, dedicated, loyal and has helped me very much in school. I know the reason I fell for him is because I feel unloved and unappreciated at home. I opened up and told him everything I’m feeling in regards to my marriage. He knew me from before and told me he has never met someone like me and that he loves me. Indeed, we are very very similar in that we stand for the same exact values and want the same things in life. When I look at him and look just how serious and dedicated he is I know he would make a wonderful partner. I now know what I want in life and someone like him would be a good, loving, reliable partner for me. I feel like because of my emotional disillusionment regarding my marriage I’m looking for a dad figure in a partner – someone who would protect and adore taking care of me. I’m in some sort of an emotional affair with this person. Nothing physical happened and it never will, unless I am divorced. He understand and approves of that. I don’t know what to do. I’m thinking for filing for divorce and spend some time on my possess to clear up my mind. I feel guilty towards my husband about me having an emotional affair with someone else. I keep on telling myself I am not a bad person and that I’ve just been disillusioned and felt uncared for. Any advice regarding my life would be much appreciated.

10 Mar 2010, 5:54 am | click here for more

Open Question: What are 5 steps in finding the feature partner?

so i hav an exam tom. about values and can any body answer these honestly Courtship marriage dating and what are the 2 steps pls help me sp i may pass these exams! thnx u

10 Mar 2010, 5:18 am | click here for more

Open Question: Shall i believe lived-in boyfriend asked me to WAIT for him, after he admitted his affair and the girl pregant?

He admitted honestly and ask my help a month ago to stand by him and let him fix the problem for a year until the girl give birth as he want the baby. Me and Him lived in for 10 years and actually plan to marry and have our possess family. Something goes wrong last quarter of 2009, i demand more caring / attention from him probably insecure feeling prior to the marriage plan, and he was attracted to another girl in his night-time study courses, of course he find that lady more understandable to him as when you are just new in adore. But i am with him 10 years with plan of many thing with him together, i adore him very much still though i felt so painful daily. Friends know my problem every WILL ASK ME TO LEAVE HIM.. but i still want to be with him and plan to also receive pregant this year.. AM I STUPID ENOUGH .. i really lost and need opinion from other, i cannot receive out of this pain.

10 Mar 2010, 4:45 am | click here for more

Open Question: I got a serious growing issue with my Mum?

I find it really difficult to ignore what she says because they are the worst of things, i don't hear but the lies can receive to me, maybe even subconsciously. My Mum said i am not going to be a personal trainer im going fail in life not move to USA not have a glad marriage and not going to make a workout video.. and she knows these are my main biggest dreams and she even said my wife is going to think im a slob because i didn't make my bed :O what a LOSER Why would she be like this? she NEVER listens when i tell her to cease she just has an bad tongue that's waiting to spit out poison and says what whatever she wants to say and doesn't have any respect to keep her mouth close when i tell her i have had enough, my Uncles x wife slapped her soo difficult once because my Mum told her anybody would know shes a dirty lady if they saw her bathroom! i told her today that shes bad! i don't even drink or go out and do bad things im christian and she always picks on me and puts me down for everything, every i do is mind my possess Business adore and help people and i would be so much better at life if she is the source of every my problems and insecurities. When i move to USA i actually never want to look her again and i told her this because she is the only one trying to put every the lies in my head to poison me against my dream. Is she just jealous that i have a great future ahead of me and she never achieved much? She does alot for me but only for her possess self gratification and when i say shes wrong she hides behind the bible! or doesn't hear at every! she thinks its ok to smash my stuff around because jesus did when he was mad smashing stuff in the temple. I told her shes not Jesus! She's got noFriendss because she finds fault in everyone and she only likes Animals, every she does is complain to her Mum and uncle about people and shes always stressed out chewing her fingernails ETC, i really do no like her one bit, as soon as i receive in the car with her in the morning she complains to me about everything and ask's me the same question 3 times in a row. Im sure you receive the picture of what she is like. She is like the devils puppet to bring me down. This problem cannot be fixed she has been like this for years and has never stopped doing one thing i told her too do, Now i am 18 i am old enough to realise people like her exist and will not play a role in my life. I cant talk to her tho this is an unfixable peoblem i tried for 3 years.

10 Mar 2010, 3:54 am | click here for more

Open Question: Help my Mom is a DRAGON!?

My Mum said im not going to be a personal trainer im gonna fail in life not move to USA not have a glad marriage and not going to make a workout video.. and she knows these are my main dreams :O what a LOSER Why would she be like this? she never listens when i tell her to cease she just has an bad tongue and says what she wants and doesn't have respect to keep her mouth close, my uncles x wife slapped her once because my mum told her shes a dirty lady because her bathroom wasn't clean! i told her today that shes bad! i don't even drink or go out and do bad things im christian and she always picks on me and puts me down for everything, she is the source of every my problems and insecurities. When i move to USA i actually never want to look her again and i told this because she is the one trying to put every the lies in my head to poison me against my dream. Is she just jealous that i have a great future ahead of me and she never achieved much? She does alot for me but only for her gratification and when i say shes wrong she hides behind the bible! she thinks its ok to smash stuff around because jesus did when he was mad. She's got no freidns because she finds fault in everyone and she only likes animals, every she does is complain to my grandma and uncle about people and shes always stressed out chewing her fingernails etc, i really do no like her one bit, as soon as i receive in the car with her in the morning she complains to me about everything and ask me the same question 3 times in a row. Im sure you receive the picture of what she is like. I cant talk to her tho this is an unfixable peoblem i tried for 3 years. She's got no freidns because she finds fault in everyone and she only likes animals, every she does is complain to my grandma and uncle about people and shes always stressed out chewing her fingernails etc, i really do no like her one bit, as soon as i receive in the car with her in the morning she complains to me about everything and ask me the same question 3 times in a row. Im sure you receive the picture of what she is like. I cant talk to her tho this is an unfixable peoblem i tried for 3 years and now im grown up and made my desision to ditch her. She's got no freidns because she finds fault in everyone and she only likes animals, every she does is complain to my grandma and uncle about people and shes always stressed out chewing her fingernails etc, i really do no like her one bit, as soon as i receive in the car with her in the morning she complains to me about everything and ask me the same question 3 times in a row. Im sure you receive the picture of what she is like. I cant talk to her tho this is an unfixable peoblem i tried for 3 years and now im grown up and made my desision to ditch her in a yr.

10 Mar 2010, 3:29 am | click here for more

Open Question: A problem related to my friend?

Hi this problem is related to my pal....She have a bf from last 4yrs.....they both adore each other most....but due to diffrent cast now they live as just friends as she dont want to be in relationship with him agst the wish of her parents.....now the problem is that her bf saying her that his parents are forcing him to receive engage for marriage with another girl......becoz of this she always looks very disappointed.....he always call her to talk to him but she avoids.....she is asking me what to do???/////but i cant figure out her situation and also i cant look her disappointed in anyway......plz tell me what to say to her????///she is not ready to marry with that guy agst the parents wish...her family is very conservative that they will not allow for this marriage..... Plz every here help me......

10 Mar 2010, 3:17 am | click here for more

Open Question: What if men could get pregnant by other men?

Would gay male couples start having kids together? Would this help pave the way for national gay marriage? Would straight men take the opportunity to trying carrying a baby themselves? Thoughts!

10 Mar 2010, 2:54 am | click here for more

Open Question: Help me regarding this?...........?

Is Second marriage possible acc to Hindu marriage…

10 Mar 2010, 2:33 am | click here for more

Open Question: i am in love with some madly in love while dis was happnig i was already going around with my boyfriend..how?

i am in adore with someone madly in adore while dis was happening i was already going around with my boyfriend..how much ever i sleepy to break with him he still wanted to marry me n so did my parents..so now im married to my boyfriend but still im in adore with dat guy..he loves me equally...i have sleepy everything to make my marriage work but without adore things are only fake..so i told my husband dat i adore someone els but he is just not ready to leave me...he just wants me..wether i adore him or no..what shouldi i do???? help....

10 Mar 2010, 1:37 am | click here for more

Open Question: I cant die i cant leave?

these days me & my husband r not having good time with each other.we have 10 yrs relationship.5 yrs before marriage,5 yrs after marriage. in these 10 yrs we had fights just for his family. i adore him very much but today also i have not felt any adore for me in his eyes.yes he is a very good husband ,he takes care for me but the thing is that i feel he is unhappy with me. We stay in joint family with his brother and mom dad. from last 10 yrs he always felt that i will take him away from his parents.i made him realised by every possible ways but at fights he kept on cursing me that you want to break my home,keep me away from my parents Im very honest,loving caring girl.from very first day of my marriage i tried my level difficult to keep every members in my home glad but i failed.i m the only daughter of my parents who didnt knw a single thing of household work but just for him n my in laws i did everything right from polishing their shoes to clean bathrooms,serving drinks but they are not glad with me i have 3 yr old son.from morning i startmy work till night 11.30.my mom imn law also helps me.she takes care of my child. but tht thing is that she wants that his son should not adore me,my son should not adore me.Why?i m also human ,i also need adore from my family,my husband.Whenever i try to share my problems with my husband he says that i m eating his ears,i m trying to btreak his home. why he cant understand me?i cant tell this to my parents also as mine is adore marriage though it is done arranged and i m not close to my parents from childhood.i dnt have best pal also to whom i can share every this. i cant die also as i have my little son.i have gone below treatments also but no use. my fights with him was bcoz he was very close to his mom physically which i was not able to digest.as his wife i always expected that he would hold my hands,when i m doing work in kitchen he will hug me from behind n say me that hw much he loved me.on my birthday gift me nything even a blossom will do n say me this is just for u,but this never happened with me from last 10 yrs not even before marriage, not even after marriage.he takes me along with him n buy for me but not on my birthday. same day is my anniversary also,but he never made me feel special. 365 days i stay with them giving everything in their hands right from a cup of tea to towel but no one cares for me. i have a tiny buisness also i look after that .the income which i receive from it 80% i spent on my child & my mom in law for every her needs from cols cream,sarees, to jewellery but then also no adore for me. the only thing i always needed was adore and nothing else. when some mithai will be bought by dad in law he will insist another bahu to eat but not me bcoz she is from their caste.my problems are very less to list im fed up of my life

10 Mar 2010, 1:35 am | click here for more

Open Question: Why is he so selfish?

I have three kids from a previous marriage, and I'm now remarried and my husband and I have a baby together. I receive plenty of child support, so I haven't needed to receive a job. My husband doesn't earn a lot of money. He pays the mortgare; I pay the bills and support my girls, but I expect him to help with my expenses and our son's. He's pretty good about what our son needs, but doesn't help me out with money unless I ask for it. I know he needs to keep for our future, but I don't feel like a married couple because we don't share most of our expenses and income. It's making me resentful toward him. Should I feel this way?

10 Mar 2010, 12:34 am | click here for more

Open Question: Not parenting related, but I need some help on deciding which one to use?

I tried posting this in Marriage & Divorce, but someone reported it (I have no clue why) and it was deleted. My husband is currently deployed. Our 5th wedding anniversary was a few weeks ago and (unfortunately) he missed it. I've been working on a scrapbook for a few months, we took anniversary photos before he left so I could add them to the scrapbook. I'd like to add a poem in the scrapbook, but I'm stuck on which one I should use! Here are the poems (I didn't write them, btw) Poem 1: Strong, Polite, Loving. He is my Marine, I adore him with the very depth of my soul. We share everything, good times and bad times.We never run out of things to say, he makes me giggle when I am down and snuggles me close when I can't snooze. He is my Marine, my lover, my soul mate, my life long partner. I hold him close to my heart. Always there for each other, always faithful, always strong. He is my Marine. I would walk to the ends of the earth for him, he would do the same. He is My Marine and I adore him more than words can explain. Poem 2: I sit up at night, alone in my bed Constant images run through my head glad times, unhappy times - the memories are there glad tears, unhappy tears - the tears that I fear. I hold his sweatshirt, so close to my heart Breathe in; breathe out - not much, but a start. snooze with his picture in my bed at night It's the next best thing I have to hold tight. The pillows lay sideways; I swear he's there They don't squeeze back; this isn't fair. I toss and I turn, I sit up and lay down I'm exhausted, I'm hurting, and I can't snooze sound. My eyes are swollen - they burn like hell The makeup don't work - you can still tell. Finally asleep, still alone, but don't know it He's in my dreams - I look him, I adore it! "He grabs my hand and turns me around, We cease, we dance - although there's no sound. He holds me close, and starts to sing About adore, about life, about everything. He lifts my chin and looks into my eyes, He tells me he loves me, it's no surprise. He kisses my head, puts it to his heart It's then that I know, we're not far apart." The alarm is sounding; wipe the snooze from my eyes It's another day gone, another sunrise. I'll continue my journey, until the very end And wait for my adore - my very best pal.

10 Mar 2010, 12:06 am | click here for more

I Want to Give up

On New Years eve day I left my husband after his night of binge drinking after he swore off alcohol. Actually, he was already totally trashed at 9am that morning on New Years eve when I came home from work. He had every the tvs on, had the stove on and was freely talking about our daughter (something ...

10 Jan 2010, 1:39 am | click here for more

Where Does 'Transparency' Fit In The New Social Media Marketing Model?

Gray_Scale_1280x1024 Unlike most business strategies, social media is built on a culture that is developed by the people who are involved in digital communities. The concepts of transparency, authenticity, honesty and passion for the topic/brand have evolved as 'society norms' for communicating and ...

1 Feb 2010, 7:33 am | click here for more

its good to be back... here at least

Hi everybody- To make a very long story a lil shorter here it goes... I am 30 and my AH is 32 we have been married for almost 7 years and no kids at this point... he goes to AA and when he doesnt go he relapses... anybody surprised?? He is a active alcoholic... meaning he has kept his job but his boss ...

1 Feb 2010, 10:28 am | click here for more

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